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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the parent of a 4yo boy who is generally a very kind and engaged little guy. We have high (and age appropriate) standards for his behavior. Excessive whining, complaining, rudeness, unkindness is just not tolerated around here. And how we have run things has been fine but now as he is moving into little kid territory I need a gut check.

As of late the eye rolling, whining and even 4yo sarcasm is leveling up. I know he is testing boundaries and so a certain amount of this I just have to let go sometimes, I think. Esp in the evenings after long days at school and trying to get him in his bedtime routine, I'll let things slide a little more. But I wanted to check with the "strict" parents, what is your rudeness boundary? How much attitude do you let slide before a consequence? FWIW he doesn't do this to others like his teachers or babysitters.

As an example, this morning I asked him to go pick out clothes and[b] he rolled his eyes and walked out of the room, ignoring me as I called his name repeatedly.  "Consequences" often include me scooping him up and saying, "Oh wow you seemed to have forgotten you kindness just now! How about you take a break until you can show me you know how to be kind." Or something of the sort.[/b] It does work but should I be doing that with every huff and eyeroll? [/quote]

I am not sure I consider myself strict, but this behavior would not be tolerated in our house. From nobody. The consequence for DS (4) is losing a sticker on his sticker chart. He gets three warnings and I think that giving him this time to reconsider his action really helps. [/quote]

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