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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You'll get flamed but you don't deserve it. Withholding sex for 10 years is abusive. Let's say you verbally abused her for 10 years and then stopped, should she just "get over it"? No. She rejected you and humiliated you and took you for granted for 10 years and is now grudgingly putting out (probably hating every minute) in order to stop you leaving. You were too patient for 10 years. Insist on therapy for you and for her (separately and together).

Don't settle on this shell of a marriage. If you know that you will leave, then do everything you can to fix it. Then you can leave with your head held high. Your mistake was not doing that in the first place. Great Dr Phil quote (I know but hear me out": You should try everything to save your marriage. But long-suffering isn't trying". Sitting around feeling resentful is not a proactive marital strategy so don't repeat it. 8 years ago you should have put your foot down for counseling and you should now.

Good luck.[/quote]

PP here....if you actually follow this person's advice.  You don't deserve a wife that will raise children for you.[/quote]

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