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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean... can you just refuse to let him take credit? [/quote] This. Or if he wants the credit, let him do the work. I also wonder if some of this is a control issue on your part. I've seen this "fun parent" vs "Mean parent" dynamic play out before and sometimes it's because the non fun parent is just too rigid. [/quote] OP here. There might be something to this, as DH had two depressed/unengaged/"mean" parents - I think he carries that with him :( When you se eDH's family together, you can cut the tension with a knife, and they slide into their old roles, so I have had to piece this together (like most of us) over the years. His mom kind of "holds court" - yes, it is awkward. [/quote]
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