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[quote=Anonymous]I would cut the nap, earlier bedtime. Make him clean up the messes he makes. If it takes a long time to clean and is delaying, it comes out of TV time. If he is making too big of a mess in his room, explain that some toys will have to be packaged up and put away until he can show you he's able to take care of his things. Then let him pick 3-5 favorite toys and pack the rest away. You can rotate them or bring them out later if he's able to keep his room cleaner. Does he have a favorite toy? Use that as his currency instead of a reward chart. Or he can earn TV time with good behavior. Overall I would rely less on childproofing and rely heavier on consequences. He's old enough to understand what he should be doing and is choosing not to. It's a hard age, as you know. Hang in there!![/quote]
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