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[quote=Anonymous]Not unreasonable of you! You will be exhausted no matter what. Guests for three days would be tiring, let alone 2 weeks! You and your coming baby and toddler who will soon get a lot less mommy time are the focus here. This is precious time to rest and prepare as much as possible. Even if they were the easiest guests in the world, there would still be social/emotional labor to do in hosting them. Tell your husband you would have been open to this at 6 months, but 7 or 8 months is too late. If they are good friends, they will understand. And if they are not completely unlikeable, they should have other friends they can ask. Sounds weirdly imposing of them to think this is a good idea, but if they don’t have kids, maybe they have no idea what pregnancy is like. Plus, what if you go into labor early? How is that going to be for you and them? Bottom line, you are vulnerable right now and your needs come first.[/quote]
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