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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder if you are the same poster who writes all the sanctimonious responses on all these types of threads. OP,  and other posters, ignore this person.[/quote]

Sure.  There is only one person who disapproves of affairs.

:roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll: [/quote]

I am a DH who has written once before that while I do not approve of affairs and would be devastated if my wife had one and I found out, I also realize that people stray for a variety of reasons even if they are in love with their spouse and have a satisfying sex life.  Note, I do not condone them, just understand that a person having one is not automatically a bad person worthy of only contempt.  Life is a little more complicated than that.[/quote]

Actually, expressing the hope that the cheating poster got therapy is showing concern.  Do you tell crack addicts that life is complicated so you don't judge them for using?  Or do you suggest that they need help to deal with their addictions so that they can outgrow the behavior?  You can't change bad behaviors without a little self-examination.  And blaming your spouse for you having an affair is about as fas from self-examination as you can get. [/quote]

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