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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had an affair. It was a horrible time in our marriage, I was vulnerable, needing tenderness and understanding...the situation presented itself. That was almost 8 years ago. We make it through and are happier and healthier. The 'other' is long gone. I think about it often, but telling him would only bring heartache and chaos into a stable, happy home.[/quote] And let's hope for your husband's sake that you spent lots of time in therapy to learn what made you choose an affair. People who cheat are broken in some way, and if you think that being unhappy is justification for acting selfishly, that's pretty self-destructive behavior. Not addressing those flaws in your character sets you up to repeat the affair. Your poor spouse. Not realizing that he chose a life partner who, when the going gets tough, runs away from him and the relationship. Yikes.[/quote]
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