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[quote=Anonymous]I would really love to hear people's input. 
My partner and I are getting married February 2022, originally wedding was planned for February of this year, but we postponed it to 2022 due to covid. The background: I have 3 brothers. The older brother is single, and he will be marrying us (he is ordained and has performed several ceremonies) my 2 younger brothers are twins,  they are only a year younger than I am, and they will be my bridesmen. We are Italian and grew up in a tight-knit family, thus, family is very important to me. Here is where I am having a hard time. Both my twin brothers are married, so there is SIL1 and SIL2. 
Both SILs have helped me through some tough times, however, SIL1 has been especially supportive and  I have grown to really love her, meanwhile, SIL2 has caused me a lot of stress in the past and we aren't as close. 
I'd like to have SIL1 be a part of my wedding party, as a bridesmaid, but I worry that SIL2 will feel left out, since she will be the only family member not included. I do not want SIL2 as a bridesmaid at all, so my question is, do I include SIL1?  or do I leave her out of the wedding party to spare SIL2's feelings?

My partner will have his college roommate as his best man, and my best friend of 20 years will be my MOH.

Please help me figure this out![/quote]

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