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[quote=Anonymous]Mine is an incident that happened with a close male friend a few months before I got married. We'd been platonic friends for years and throughout this time friend was open about the fact that he'd like to fuck me. But I always made it clear that I had no sexual interest in him, and our platonic friendship continued.

A couple months before my wedding, friend and I were away together in another city for work. One night, we went out drinking and smoked a joint. He said he had a surprise for me, and took me to a spa where he'd made an appointment for a couples massage. I was hesitant but went through with it since we were already there. We were massaged in the same room, separate beds next to each other, completely naked but under a blanket. I was careful to stay covered up for the most part, but he didn't really care. Afterward, we went in the steam room and he tried to kiss me. I backed away and said we should go and we did.

I've never told DH and don't plan to. I'm still friends with the friend, and we've hung out alone many times since and everything has been totally platonic. There's nothing to be gained from telling. DH would be upset and wouldn't want me to see friend anymore. I've never been attracted to friend so I know that nothing will happen with him, but I can't prove that to DH and wouldn't expect him to trust me after hearing that story. I do feel bad that this one incident got out of hand, and I'd be really upset if DH did this with a female friend. But even if he did, it's not a marriage ending offense in my mind. The worse part would be not knowing the truth about what happened or what to believe. And since I can't prove to him that nothing happened that night or since, I don't think there's any purpose to telling. [/quote]

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