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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just sent her a few videos of my kids on Facebook messenger and said to please share with FIL. She responds “it seems like your phone is functioning just fine. Why don’t you text him yourself?” To which I said DH doesn’t like me contacting his dad and she wrote back “That’s between you and DH. I’m not your messenger. Every time you message me, it’s a directive to buy something or show FIL videos of DH drunk or your kids. It’s honestly rubbing me the wrong way that you don’t even ask about me but contact me with instructions every single time. You have FIL’s cell phone so you can send him the videos directly.” I’m annoyed that she couldn’t just say ok but had to lecture me like this. Do I tell FIL? [/quote]

How do you treat her?  If you only text wanting money/stuff or for FIL, she is right.  Do you check to see how she's doing?  Ask how she is or do you just send your gift list for her to buy?  Do you treat her like family?  Doesn't sound like it so what do you want from her?[/quote]

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