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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Her last reason for rejection was that I hadn't been romantic enough to her in the past few weeks.[/quote]
She's telling you something. What does romantic mean to her? Everyone has a different love language. Instead of accepting a sexless marriage, are you willing to romance her more?[/quote]

She was right about that (wasn't intentional, just lots of other things going on), but I never was that romantic, and she's wasn't romantic or affectionate towards me the previous weeks either.

That's been my action in the past -- try to be more romantic.. but this time around, it got me to thinking... it's just another barrier she's putting off in order to have sex. It's like you have to pass a list of 10 different tests in order to get it once every month or two... and I'm wondering if this is worth all the effort, when rejection is nearly as likely as well.

I just feel like she's treating it like some reward and I have to jump through all these hoops, while I've never rejected her nor set up all these requirements.[/quote]

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