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Reply to "When both spouses think they do more around the house than the other spouse"
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[quote=Anonymous]Your feelings are valid. My DH loves to cook. He will cook, even if we have leftovers and other stuff need to be done. When I used to see the mounds of food that no one wanted to eat, and the dirty house that has become messier with all the cooking, I wanted to cry. He used to get hurt because he thought that he was taking care of the family. And yes, he was. No point in making lists because both of you are actually prioritizing the tasks that you think are important. No one wants the other person to dictate what should be done and in what priority. Doing this will result in resentment. So, instead of pondering who does what, have a "at the very least" kind of minimalist task list and try and get to that. Our daily tasks are - dishes, watering the plants, walking the dog, cooking/ordering food, feeding people and pets, taking out the trash . If we have time - making beds, 1 load of laundry, wiping counters, sweeping floors, swishing the toilets. [/quote]
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