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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Some examples: spending the day on a long bike ride, going to museums with family members, out to lunch with a friend I haven’t seen for a while, spending a weekend somewhere, and going on a business trip (in the old days). [/quote] Are you 'testing him'? Do you see the number of questions he asks or the interest he shows in what you did while you were away from him an indication of his esteem for you? I think you are dissatisfied with the level of emotional connectedness in your relationship and using this as a barometer. [/quote] OP here. Yes, this is definitely part of it. But I’m also trying to gauge if I have expectations that are too high. [/quote] NP. In this exact scenario, you have expectations that are too high. If he greets you and asks generally "how was your trip," that is normal. Pt here might be other things where your feelings of disconnection are valid...but this ain't it. [/quote]
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