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[quote=Anonymous]He gets to pick his friends, but you get to choose how you socialize and you have a reasonable level of veto on how your kids socialize. So, you and the kids don't see them: your DH can do what he wants. I did this when I wanted out of a couples friendship with a really toxic person. I just said to DH that I wouldn't visit with his friend (the toxic one) or the friend's spouse, and they were not welcome in our home or to be around our child. What he did with them otherwise was his business and I promised I would not say anything about it or judge DH for remaining in touch. I was really not interested in shaming him out of this friendship, because it was a longstanding one. I didn't want to isolate DH from his friends. But the end result was that DH eventually broke it off with that friend. He and I have never discussed exactly how that happened.[/quote]
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