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[quote=Anonymous]Your SIL sounds insecure to me. A lot of people picture insecurity as shy, withdrawn, etc. It often presents itself as "know it all." It's difficult to know just going off of what you've posted but that's my gut reaction. You won't be able to change her so don't even bother with that. You've got a few choices--you can keep doing you and trying to find gifts the way you normally do--thinking a lot about the recipient and trying to make the gift special or you can respect her wishes and give gifts that she's asked for and save your efforts for others who will appreciate that effort. Whatever you do please don't take her actions personally, OP. Her actions are about HER, not about you. [/quote]
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