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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks. I really really do not give unsolicited advice. The closest I ever come is the example I gave. And at this point when my brother asks me advice I usually tell him that he should talk to his wife instead. And I am well aware of the clutter factor so I try to send things that are small or consumable (like bath bombs for nephew) and I always include in my note that anything they don’t find useful they can just donate. Honestly I kind of feel like “why can’t you just lie to me?” If I send a gift you hate, why not just say thank you and quietly donate it instead of going out of your way to tell me “Yeah, I have been wanting one of these from X brand but Y brand will do for now, I guess.”[/quote]
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