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[quote=Anonymous]Poor thing. HUG! You are wonderful mom. You give all you have and if your husband thinks you should give more then he can stuff himself. He is a heartless a-hole. Nobody appreciates you and this makes it hard. Know that you don't need someone to judge you when they don't see all the work they do. Their criticism is irrelevant and don't let it hurt you. You know you put so much value into your family. It is not money but it is a value. You are trying to make your child to survive all this and this is priceless. You are bending backwards to do so and the problem is that your husband can not see the invisible work. [b]Let me tell this to your husband OP:[/b] your wife needs your support now and your appreciation and you are focusing only on things that you seem important while the child comes first and family balance comes first. At one point you your wife might completly loose it and leave you and then no amount of money can bring your family together. Appreciate it while it still whole. You can not unbreak the family. Love your wife and act accordingly because if you do love her then you would show it. You can not hurt someone who works so hard and put priorities first. [u]One can not be everything for everybody[/u] but stupid people try and at the end of the day the most important things get neglected and lost. WHO cares if the house is spotless if your kid will get depression? Your family comes first, your child comes first.. and if you don't understand this, you don't deserve them. Divorce is much more expensive then the money you think you are loosing. Get a grip and show some heart.[/quote]
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