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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I suggest you figure out how to quickly assess whether the man is marriage material and if the relationship is heading towards marriage. Once you're in your 30's, you should at least start discussing marriage within 6 or so months and be engaged within around a year. Don't spend 2 years with a guy just seeing how it goes. Almost all the good guys are married or engaged by 35.

I mean this gently, but all the 40+ never-married females I know have allowed themselves to be strung along by guys. Many of them are wonderful, intelligent, attractive women who have confidence and guy-selection issues. Get your confidence up, fix your picker, and have the courage to walk away from a dead-end relationship.[/quote]

Or we ( I am single and 44) spent too much time in relationships with guys we realized we didn’t want to marry.

I’m not good at figuring out what I want early on and breaking  things off early.[/quote]

It's not an "or" situation. You're exactly what I'm talking about. You stay in dead-end relationships. There's a type of person - both male and female - who stay in dead-end long-term relationships. It's what damaged people do. There's no reason to date for 3+ years unless you met in college. It's fine if you don't want to get married, but if you do then you need to figure out what you want.[/quote]

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