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[quote=Anonymous]to 15:18/15:38, I hope things work out with you guys. i remember your earlier posts. I also can only begin to imagine the pain and the lingering feelings of anger, mistrust, etc, that you continue to go through, probably at very unexpected moment.

but, there's one thing that has changed--your DH came very, very close to losing you immediately (and knows he's not out of the water) and has probably realized just how much he doesn't want that to happen in a deeply visceral way which could very well make for a much better, more attentive, more in tune husband (and marriage) than otherwise.  DH almost lost me--not for cheating, but other things--and his realization that he did not want that to happen and that he wanted to be with me more than anything else completely changed him and us. 4 years later and he still tells me how lucky he feels that he is with me, and while he is not perfect, he is a wonderful, loving husband. I truly think that without us coming to that crisis point (indeed, we did break up for about 2 months) we would not be as close as we are now.

I know you're not there yet and everyone is different, but just offering you some food for thought and maybe some hope. [/quote]

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