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[quote=Anonymous]I appreciate others' reflections, but, really, practically speaking, how do you keep something as huge as this from your spouse? This is something that leaks out in a thousand different ways, and they usually don't mean greater kindness to the spouse. That's what the phrase "blame the victim" is all about. That guilt is just a massive unacknowledged wound in the relationship that will fester until it's addressed and resolved one way or the other. Learning that I'd been cheated on was horrible, horrible, but I'm glad he told me because it explained the things that were going on between us. And we were able to resolve things afterwards. We wouldn't have been able to do that if he hadn't told me. [/quote]
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