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[quote=Anonymous]I have seriously thought my husband was cheating on me. Shortly after we had our first child, I found out he was seeing other women while we were engaged. He denies doing anything intimate, but the trust was broken. A few years later, there were a couple numbers on his phone that he texted all the time, and that he lied about when I asked who it was. That said, he's had no contact with those 2 women since I confronted him on it. I've had to work very hard to trust him again. Would I want to know? Yes. Why? To validate my suspicions, to know that I wasn't "crazy" and some irrational jealous wife. However, if I was not suspicious, and he ended the affairs, vowed in his own mind to focus on his marriage, was STD-free, it would be better for our marriage for me not to know. I don't know about a serial cheater and the need to inform the spouse. I would be tempted to tell her. He is risking her life. [/quote]
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