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I would consult a lawyer and get that certification.
[b]Also, be careful with the joint accounts. He can clear them out.[/b]

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Also, check about liability for debts during this informal (?) separation period when you consult a lawyer.  Given what you’ve said about soon to be ex, I would prepare for the worst.  While you are trying to stay together to get your ducks in a row, he can be hiding assets, cleaning out bank accounts, running up joint debts to be vindictive, all while pressuring you to sign an unfair settlement.  Why would you expect him to be fair and play the the rules when he hasn’t so far?[/quote]

You are so right! He secretly took a HELOC loan out of the marital home in 2019, and transferred part of the money to mistress. I discovered it 2 years later, and that's how I found out he's leading double life. He quickly moved the funds back (must be hiding other accounts somewhere as the mistress is abroad), and closed down HELOC

I am checking DC land registrar for any liens on the homes deeds constantly, checking my credit score.

Where else do I check for joint liabilities? [/quote]

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