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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I judge their parents.[/quote]

I do, to an extent. At some point, self-introspection is in order for meaningful growth. Sure some of us get a push on the swing or a good head start, but change is available to everyone that has the courage to face uncertainty. Which is usually just uncertain to the person — because they never took a leap of faith to try to heal from their hurt, so they wouldn’t hurt other people.

When you know better, you do better. Some people have never been told. Others have no excuse.

It’s very hard for me to not judge Javanka. It is hard to not judge Ted Bundy or Hitler, no matter how scarred their backgrounds were. We all have some sort of flaw in our past whether inherited or invoked. Adults learning how to break free from the remnants of a horrible childhood have all of my admiration. Those that expect for others to assimilate with expressions of their brokenness - I don’t judge but I don’t have sympathy. All work is work and their choice not to take responsibility in being a better person is pretty distasteful to me. [/quote]

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