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[quote=Anonymous]Agree to let it sit for a day or two, and see how you feel. Then, I vote for honesty. "Hey. Sorry to hear you're going through a divorce. I'm a bit surprised to hear from you - when I was going through my divorce back in 2017, you and the rest of the whatever group seemed to drop me and didn't respond to my attempts to reach out. That was a really tough time for me, and I could have used your support." Then wait and see what she has to say. Maybe she'll have an explanation or apology. Maybe she'll just respond defensively. But it's worth it to give her a chance if you miss her friendship. If you don't miss the friendship and this has made you realize that you weren't a good fit or something, I agree with the other poster that you're under no obligation to be her "divorce doula" (love it) and you should feel free to ghost or not respond (or give non committal "sorry, that's tough. Best of luck." type responses.[/quote]
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