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Reply to "How one DH perceives DW who complains he isn't pitching in enough"
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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know what 9:45 is going on about. Yes, everyone in the household is expected to chip in to do chores around the house, and I don't see tha the OP is "looking for a medal" or something for doing the dishes. However, each family member should also be free of criticism for not doing the job perfectly. He has a right to not get criticized for the work he does. Just like we all do. And I say this as someone who naturally feels the need to point out missed spots myself. Instead, I say, "thank you sweetie, that's a big help. It's so much easier for me to make dinner in a clean kitchen." The compliment is immediately appreciated. It becomes a habit for the giver. And finally, it helps generate true appreciation for the giver. Fake it til you make it. [/quote]
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