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Reply to "If a friend confided in you that they were being abused by their spouse what would you do?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can tell you what definitely not to do. Don’t start running around telling all the mutual friends that it’s the abused person’s choice, and they are obviously never gonna leave, so no one should bother to do anything. Happened to me 15 years ago, still hurts. Support your friend. First of all, try to spend some time with her regularly to keep a tiny sliver of normalcy in her life. Then try to understand her situation and what she is thinking. It’s possible she is not leaving because she doesn’t see how she can do it. That may be objective or subjective- look up some resources to point her a way out.[/quote] Different survivor PP and my heart goes out to you. I hope your healing is full despite the former betrayals of duty, and that a warm energy is always surrounding your path. You gave excellent advice. [/quote]
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