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Reply to "If a friend confided in you that they were being abused by their spouse what would you do?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Document what you were told and when. Set up a code message she can send if really in trouble. [/quote] +1 send her an email with anything she said has happened in the past approximate dates. Tell her you are there for her if it gets bad. The record will be really important if it does and she decides to leave.[/quote] Uhhh, don't do this without her permission. Send it to yourself. He could read her emails. [/quote] Yeah, that was terrible advice. Send the email to yourself. But it is a good idea to document it. You can also offer to keep copies of important documents, cash and a go bag at your house so that if she feels she needs to leave suddenly, she can. Also, is the abuse emotional or physical? I would be more nervous about escalation in the latter.[/quote]
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