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[quote=Anonymous]What has worked for my husband and I is to set a clear schedule: “since you’re leaving and will be gone for a week, please make sure that you wake up with the kids and spend 1:1 time with them before leaving. I will come down at 9am. Next Saturday, I am going to take a break from morning until 1pm to decompress from the stressful week of you being gone with your family. Please plan to wake up with them, and spend 1:1 time with them until 1pm.” You need to be explicit and Black and White on what you want / need (this has been the best approach for me. If I let my husband ‘decide’ the schedule, I always get ‘the shaft’).[/quote]
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