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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As I told her - she doesn’t get to toss it - and run-   I’m sorry it happened, But her dropping something like that -in a text - after I said I would be taking space -is also problematic given the history of manipulation that has occurred between us...

I also told her the last thing I wanted to do was shut down a conversation but it was too painful to be so resented. Which I said and then she sent that text- what???[/quote]

Your father assaulted/raped/molested her.  Of course she resents you because you got to have a childhood and a dad who did not violate you.  She on the other hand was a convenient and available child to victimize for the sicko who fathered you. Of course she resents you.

She is giving you the biggest clue of why she is so unhappy.  You can be the compassionate person and try to understand what she is feeling as a victim.  You need to grow up and realize that her life was spoiled by your father.  You need to realize that a great harm was done to her by your dad while you remained unscathed from that perversion. [/quote]

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