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[quote=Anonymous]... including "weird" issues from my father (her stepfather). This was after a big fight, over text, and after I told her I might not talk to her again.

She then told me she didn't want to say anything unless I have daughters (I have toddler who is a boy), but that she feels "deeply shameful and uncomfortable talking about it, but the fact that it's all blown up [she's referencing our fight and my saying I am done] means I can toss.. this information and run."

She also says our mother ignored or denied that anything had happened by my father.

Dropping something like that in a text? What??? She doesn't get to "toss it and run."

It told her that was problematic given that I had told her that I was taking space, and the history of manipulation that has occurred between us (which she may not be aware of but may play into perhaps unwittingly)... it is just too painful. I also told her I was sorry it happened, and that I hoped she'd tell me someday, maybe, but that frankly I wasn't sure if we would repair things.

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