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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a college age daughter now.  Sometime in late middle school or early high school, she asked us something about sex and it was like someone told me it didn’t feel good.  My husband valiantly waded in with explanations about what boys are thinking about.  And I followed up by saying basically, sex is *always* for you too.  If it hurts, stop and figure out why.  If your partner doesn’t care that sex feels good to you, stop having sex with them, that won’t change. If you don’t want to do something that someone really likes or wants you don’t ever have to, but they also don’t have to do something you really like if they don’t want to (I did get a like what question here - so I responded with oral or anal sex).  I went on for a while and I closed with, “just remember when the time is right for you to have sex, it is *ALWAYS* for you too.”
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We were in a restaurant and two women at a nearby table clapped. [/b] [/quote]

Omg, how embarrassing for your child. [/quote]

PP.  Hopefully neither you nor your daughter was embarrassed by the other ladies clapping, because they do so in solidarity and agreement to what you were saying.  Which is exactly what you women need.  And I’m clapping for you now well after the fact.[/quote]

Thank you, PP.  It seems you were one of two who got the point of the story.  Our daughter wasn’t embarrassed at all.  She was the one who asked about the subject straight out in the restaurant.  She was relieved.  And the ladies were clapping in solidarity. And as the years passed, our daughter quoted me a couple of times here and there when the subject of sex came up between she and her friends.  [/quote]

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