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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: I think it's rude to check scores or otherwise tune out when people are over, esp. when the whole point is to connect. And I didn't tell him not to check, but to go to the bathroom to do it, so he could get the alone time he wanted. We invite people to our home and I don't think it's unreasonable to pay attention to them for 2 hours. 
I am very focused and we can't postpone the next two months. I've started, canceled other things - and I'm simply too invested (not just $) in trying this new protocol now. I do love DH, very much, but I'm the one driving to the appointments, injecting, etc. - I will resent him if I have to stop right now so he can do what? He's not participating in that part, I am, so I don't see why my canceling will have him feel more involved in our marriage.[/quote]

Maybe he feels like you are micromanaging him? And he is exhausted? I'm just saying that with everything you have going on, pick your battles. Let the small stuff go. For me, checking a score for 2 min is a small thing and not worth berating someone about.[/quote]

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