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[quote=Anonymous]I posted this under relationships non explicit but now I'm getting lots of 'just take a break!" comments so thought I would try w/ my peeps. Four years of TTC'ing, one kid, about to sign another contract w a one year expiration. To maximize our FSA we need to get a cycle in before 12/31. Since August (?) we only have sex while I'm ovulating, we try but we're tired, stressed - we work FT, commute, and I do the injectibles w/ 2X week monitoring (mostly). DH is tuning out, doesn't look at me, checked his  phone for sports scores last night when we had friends over (and then got angry w/ me for creating a 'new rule' he'd never heard of), doesn't want to talk about which contract to sign, etc. We have a date night Friday, but he doesn't want to talk about what to do or where to go - and there's all that coordination to do w/ meds, sitter, dinner for kid, you know. I can't start marriage counseling now as I have end of year work plus my regular life plus this next cycle. Isn't there such a thing as a potion I can sprinkle on his food and we'll laugh about some old memory we share? Or some chant to remember why want to have kids together? How can we reconnect, and still keep TTCing?[/quote]

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