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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have this strange feeling that DH may be cheating with someone. Not sure the extent of things.  As background, we've been married for 10 years & have 3 kids.  We have definitely had our struggles and have been in counseling at times to help us though those rough patches. I am not the jealous type and do not have a problem with him having female friends etc.  [b]He's been working a lot, which isn't completely out of the norm, but he seems happy to be working a lot[/b]. [b]He also seems distant and hasn't asked to have sex in a while, which is totally unusual b/c he normally wants to have sex several times a week.[/b]  And I just keep getting this strange feeling that he may be having an affair with someone.  How can I figure out if there is something going on?[/quote]

Well, there are only two ways to know for sure 1) catch him in the act or 2) he tells you.  So I would not spend too much time worry about whether he is and trying to figure it out bc you are going to get lots and lots of clues but nothing will be definitive.  I think that you should talk to him, dont accuse him of an affair but just say that you noticed that he has been a bit distant and that you are not have a much sex and that you are concern.  BTW, does he turn you down if you ask?  Do you ever ask or do you wait for him to ask.   Again, just talk to him about how are are feeling.

Good Luck.[/quote]

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