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[quote=Anonymous]I had a really hard time in marriage after baby, and frankly have found it has changed the nature of my marriage period. Slight annoyances before are magnified with a child and realizing that any decisions we make or dynamics effect not just our marriage but also our offspring. My advice, keep the laundry list short. Holding onto resentments and letting the list grow too long makes it harder to surmount. Keep practicing vulnerability with self and spouse. Share honestly and resist the urge to share to be “right”. Also, be open to change, in yourself, and within your marriage. The things that you can let go, let go. Lastly, remember boundaries and that ultimately we can only control ourselves. We can share feedback and ask that our spouse be open to it, but we cannot control each other. Oh and also, sleep first talk later! Best of luck and take it easy. I hope it gets easier for you. I know it did for me although the marriage work continues. [/quote]
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