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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. I’m at my wits end. Is he gas lighting me? At his suggestion that he needed a bigger block of free time on Sunday, we agreed weeks ago that I would take care of kids until a certain time today, then he takes over for the evening. That time came. He announced it wasn’t fair, bc kids woke up late, napped late, and therefore I had a shorter block of time responsible for child care today. He said we should split the rest of the day instead of proceeding with his previously agreed upon schedule. I was enraged, but calmly said to him. This schedule was YOUR IDEA. During the week, when the kids wake up later and you have a shorter chunk of time before giving them to me, I don’t complain or cry unfair. This was your idea and you can’t just manipulate the schedule to your advantage. He conceded, but not before saying “YOURE the one who does this stuff all the time- trying to carve out more time for yourself.” Am o being gaslit?? WTF[/quote]
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