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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh LORD!!! You do have a boring sex life! My wife and I watch porn. The first few minutes she tries to pretend that it isn't doing much for her (even though watching is her suggestion), and then, certain physical changes occur that let me know that it is having an affect. She just let me try the back door a few months ago. It was OK and I'd do it again, but she is gradually loosening up to the kind of freak I wanted all along. Maybe your husband has some issues with the fact that he would like to do these things but is embarrassed about what you'll think of him if he likes it? [b]My wife offered to massage my prostate, and though I might like it, I acted cool to the idea precisely because I might like it[/b]. I like the suggestion to put the porn on and show him what you want. We watch mostly 80's porn because that's when women actually had hair, but nicely trimmed hair and natural boobs (and because I fell in love with Ginger Lynn as an adolescent boy). Just order some stuff online and have it shipped to you. If nothing else, you can use the porn when he isn't around and you can be almost as freaky as you like-[/quote]

I don't get that. Why did you act cool?

I had a lover like OP's husband and I found that he really was very submissive and his fantasies revolved around being dominated. OP wants her DH to take charge and be in control and I don't think he's into that. i have a feeling that if OP offered to tie him up and do things to him he might be more receptive. This could open up the door to more interesting things. Also, OP, I think you need to give him some very nice pleasant instruction using an "I message" on how to go down on you.[/quote]

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