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Reply to "Really dumb, naive question about affairs and why people hide them"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think some people also don't want to be alone. Leaving their spouse for the lover is risky - it exposes them to the possibility of not having a partner, of having the stigma of being alone, of having nobody want them. (I'm never-married at 39. believe me, there is a stigma, like being the last kid picked for kickball.) With a spouse and a lover, they get the thrill of new love/lust without the scary-in-the-pit-of-your-stomach feeling of the possibility of being left with nothing. I'm more the type to leave when a relationship is making me unhappy; I'm not someone who overlaps.[/quote]
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