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Reply to "Really dumb, naive question about affairs and why people hide them"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get why people have affairs for the most part. But the hiding them is less clear to me. I guess I just figure if my husband, well, doesn't respect or love me enough not to cheat, why bother hiding it? Why not just leave? Or since we really can't afford to sell the house, just walk up and slap me in the face and say, "hey, I'm sleeping with someone else. What are you gonna do since I know you don't want to split custody and see the kids less and I know you don't want to sell our house." Is it the excitement of keeping a secret? The just wanting it both ways (the security of marriage and the excitement of sex with someone else?). [/quote] I think for many it's the excitement of having a sexy secret and the wanting it both ways. Your question isn't dumb or naive. Some people (like you) don't see the point of affairs and would just leave.[/quote]
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