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[quote=Anonymous]My sister is going through her second round of IVF. First round failed and I’m really hoping that this one sticks. The embryo will be implanted in her uterus sometime end of next week (seems like they have to check a few things with her uterine lining before setting an exact date). Problem is that I found out that I’m pregnant with my third. I’m 5 weeks along. I know my sister will be happy for me but I also can’t imagine how it would feel if the ivf is not successful. I am confused on whether to tell her now before they implant the embryo or after. With my first two I told her when I was around 5 weeks as well. I feel like waiting until after may make her think that I was hiding the pregnancy from her. But telling her before may stress her out? I’m honestly still processing the pregnancy myself since it was unplanned. I’m also freaking out since I have an iud in place and my obgyn thinks it’s best for them to leave it in there until delivery. I’m looking for advice on when and how to break the news to her and would love to hear your perspectives. My apologies if I used any terminology that is incorrect. I’m not really familiar with the process. [/quote]
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