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[quote=Anonymous]It's good that they're excited. You can just say "We'll let you know when we're ready for visitors, but please keep in mind we're in a pandemic too, so this may take longer than we'd all like. We are going to do what our baby's pediatrician recommends." It's TOTALLY okay to lie and say the ped says no visitors until the baby's had its first shots. Do NOT get pressured into having people come stay when you have the baby if that's not what you want. I did, and my husband had to tell them "This is why PP didn't want you to come - you're being overbearing, second-guessing every decision she makes, and interrupting every SINGLE time she's trying to nurse or bond with our baby." And then he had to kick them out (mostly my step-mom) I wish to hell I'd just said "We're not ready for visitors yet but we'll let you know when." [/quote]
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