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Reply to "Everything was great for 6 months and then family finds out and boom: he ends it. Advice?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]As hard as this is, it would’ve been far, far more difficult if it happened six more months down the line when you *were* really serious. If you’re blindsided now, imagine how you would feel then. So yes, he did you the favor.[/b] He’s not the guy. At 40 years old he is not not able to separate from his family and live his own life. That rules him out as a serious partner for you.[/quote] +1. When someone comes on DCUM with grievances that their in-laws are acting crazy towards them and their spouse doesn’t stand up to their parents, we always say, you don’t have an in-law problem, you have a spouse problem. So there was no would’ve, could’ve should’ve. Whatever the reason this guy lacks boundaries with his family and ability to make his own decisions would be there whether you dated six months or six years.[/quote]
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