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[quote=Anonymous]The counseling and the access to his phone, etc are good signs and gestures that he wants to rebuild trust. I personally could not get over the trust issues when my ex husband had an affair. I sadly did divorce him even with 2 young children. Talk to a lawyer, have your ducks all in a row to file at any time of your choosing. You can prepare for divorce, but then sit on it for 6 months. See what efforts he makes. See how YOU feel. Maybe you'll get over the shock of the situation, and realize you dont want to babysit a grown man's phone or have to doubt he is where he says he is or is doing what he says he's doing. Whatever you end up doing, you are strong enough to handle. Lawyer now. Determine a custody plan, child support, living arrangements, etc. Sit back and let HIM step up and prove he can be a good husband.[/quote]
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