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[quote=Anonymous]Obviously, this won't work for all kids, but maybe you could help alleviate some of the stress and pressure she's feeling about the decision. Remind her that there isn't just one school where she'd be happy and that she could possibly (probably) love MANY without even setting foot on campus beforehand. If she's feeling she has to have an official visit to know for sure, help her understand that isn't true. As a PP mentioned, drive to those you can get to and home in a day and check out the campus and surrounding area. Or if there are one or two OOS schools she's most interested in, see if you can find a hotel where you'd feel comfortable spending the night; or if you have a significant other, drive in shifts and don't spend the night. For students who were unable to visit everywhere they wanted, my DC's advisor encouraged kids to visit schools nearby that would have a similar feel in size, layout, location (urban/rural), etc. Then you can help your child make connections about similarities and differences. Talking with current students and attending the online sessions along can also be a helpful part of the process. None of this may be ideal, but it's a way to keep options open and still feel you're learning more about the school.

And mom/dad, if you're feeling anxious about all of this and don't feel you can help your daughter as well as you'd like, maybe you have a relative, close friend, etc. who could have these conversations with DD.

Good luck!![/quote]

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