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[quote=Anonymous]DH’s brother (single, unmarried) has a leak at his apartment that needs to be fixed and he likely has to be out completely for a week or two. He asked if he can stay with us (which I am not thrilled with in general because of Covid) but my bigger issue is that he is a smoker (maybe a pack a day) and I don’t love the idea of a smoker staying with us, even though he would only be smoking outside. We have young kids and if he is going out to smoke multiple times per day he will for sure be coming back in reeking of cigarettes (I mean honestly he isn’t going to change his clothes and brush his teeth every single time).

I told DH I am not comfortable with his smoking so DH (who agrees to an extent) spoke to him and he said he can try to cut back a bit but not smoking is not possible.

As an FYI, he could stay with their parents but they don’t always get along so well so he prefers to stay with us - just mentioning that since he does technically have another option.

DH is inclined to let him stay, but I really am against it. Am I in the wrong here? I really despise smoking.[/quote]

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