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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Work is not a problem as I can work remotely. I’m not good with big changes and this is the ultimate. We could get a holiday home there, we have looked at it, but ultimately it would just result in her still being unhappy in the city. So it seems to me like it has to be all or nothing. - OP[/quote] You would benefit from therapy. Whether you guys move or not, you can choose to frame things in more accurate, less dramatic and catastrophic ways. Moving three hours away is not “the ultimate” change, it’s just deciding to live somewhere else for a period of time. Worrying about fitting in or adjusting is not completely “losing your identity,” it’s just anxiety about change. [/quote]
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