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[quote=Anonymous]I was recently published and I have only shared it with my husband, my best friend and my sil. I am very critical and I see all the things wrong with the final edit. Oh well. It's done.

The problem is, my sil shared but on her social media and my mother saw it. I have shared here about my mother before. She abused bme most of my life, took my rapist side and just overall has let me down since I was born.

She calls my DH ( knowing I won't pick up, and will wait days to return the call) he puts it on speaker and I expect out usual 10 seconds call. Instead asks why she had to find the out about the article from sil/FB. Why I didn't send it to her. Telling me how proud she is and wants a copy to send to her friends and brag about me. Again how proud she is, that she sometimes gets mad at me but I'm still her baby....I'm just thinking go f yourself.

She isn't proud of me. She is excited to have something to share to FB that will get her attention. I feel gross and like I'm 10 years old again. I hate it. I can't even accept a compliment.

I guess the silver lining is her pretend interest/proud of me makes me recoil and cringe. I no longer long for her validation or to hear I'm proud of you. I can see it for what it is.

Still doesn't feel good. [/quote]

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