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[quote=Anonymous]I am a pleaser... have a gigantic difficulty to say "no, I cannot do this"... It is horrible! And then, I feel resentment.... But I am much better now than I used to be, I am learning to be more selfish. I had to go through a psychological evaluation hand to answer lots of questions, do some tests, etc. I mentioned that I was becoming more selfish lately (couple of years) and she said that is actually a good thing. But I still have to learn to say "no!" Some people DO walk all over you once they figure out they can pretty much get away with anything... like leaving their dog/cat/whatever with me for a fu%^&&^ng whole month while they travel. This past summer, for the first time, I was able to say "no", although I had to give an excuse... ideally, I would just say "no" without having to justify myself.[/quote]
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