Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Off-Topic
Reply to "I was raised to be a mousy woman"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love my mom, but she raised me to be a pleaser. And to "turn the other cheek" and to serve my DH and make things nice for everyone. I will always be described as a nice person, but a pushover. My kids know it, my DH knows it and my friends know it. How do you become stronger and stop caring if people don't like what you say or do? I obsess over hurting someone's feelings, and if I do stand up for myself, people attack me. Usually because I have held my anger in for so long, I blow up. And it always shocks everyone. I no longer host dinners or holidays at my home, because I end up doing all the work. And I have stopped babysitting everyone's kids for free. But I still feel like a doormat, what should I do?[/quote] You sound like me. :cry:[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
