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[quote=Anonymous]If the brothers are not disabled and they're just of the "failure to launch" variety, they would not be welcome to come live with me. If that means that at 45 or 50 they have to go through the struggles most 17-19 yr old boys go through when they go to college and learn to do their own laundry so be it. That's their problem. I would wait until MIL brings up the whole "in my culture" thing and then say "I can appreciate that you do what feels right to you, and hope you respect that I do what seems right for me and my culture." And I'd make damn sure DH is on board with me that his moocher brothers are NOT coming to live with us.[/quote]
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